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Ten Decisive Steps to Motivating your Delinquent Teen to Action

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STEP SEVEN

ENVIRONMENT

In a previous book, Motivating Yourself To Success, Health and Wellness, I advanced the view that the environment within which one is accustomed to, can affect to a positive or negative effect, the level of motivation that one feels.  I’d like to broaden the concept of environment a bit by not just relegating it to a particular local, but to a state of mind.  The environment is essentially where one resides or participates in on a regular basis and this is normally a physical reality that is compounded by many factors.

Environment can affect the level of motivation to the extent that it facilitates a peaceful, comfortable and relaxing atmosphere which is often necessary for motivation.  In my previous book, I put forward the idea that if one’s environment did not offer a peaceful, relaxing and comfortable atmosphere within which one can breathe, then the person seeking to motivate himself, should strive to create their own little space where they can retreat to for inspiration.  This might be their room, a private spot in the house or even a park for a one hour getaway.  This might still not be an option for many persons that are limited by space, mobility or responsibility and selling the idea to a teen to create their own space might not go down well with a teen that is not lent towards independence.  The onus is therefore on the parent or guardian to facilitate that environment of a peaceful and motivating atmosphere.

Again where limitations occur at a physical location, the idea of the environment not being just a physical place but a state of the mind is advocated.  What I basically mean is that your teen where they cannot find that perfect environment within which to creatively achieve can be encouraged through channeling their themselves, to create that perfect space within their minds. Channeling the mind to be at rest can be a great motivator and dreams that are often accomplished are first envisioned.  If your teen can envision the perfect environment within their minds and set it as a future achievable goal then they will often find great peace in their present circumstances.  Helping your teen to envision their own little heaven can be achieved through introducing them to books that take them to a world beyond their own that is beautiful and achievable.

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